{"id":925,"date":"2025-08-04T10:24:17","date_gmt":"2025-08-04T10:24:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tappyli.com\/?p=925"},"modified":"2025-08-04T10:24:17","modified_gmt":"2025-08-04T10:24:17","slug":"when-mom-got-sick","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tappyli.com\/?p=925","title":{"rendered":"When Mom got sick"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"116\" data-end=\"464\">When Mom got sick, my sister suddenly stepped into the role of the devoted daughter. She moved in with her and kept me at a distance, insisting she had everything under control. But I knew my sister\u2014her intentions had never been entirely sincere. I couldn\u2019t do much at the time, but everything changed the day the doctor handed me Mom\u2019s final note.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"466\" data-end=\"701\">I never truly understood how two siblings, raised in the same home, could turn out so different\u2014at least not until we became adults. Our mother raised us alone, and as I grew older, I began to grasp just how hard life had been for her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"703\" data-end=\"939\">I still remember the tiny apartment we lived in when I was little. Winters were harsh, and the wind would whistle through the cracks in the windows. Mom worked two jobs just to keep a roof over our heads, but it was a constant struggle.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"941\" data-end=\"1069\">There were times when food was scarce. I\u2019ll never forget the evenings when our neighbor, Mrs. Jenkins, would bring us hot meals.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1071\" data-end=\"1156\">She always smiled kindly as she handed us a steaming pot of soup or a plate of pasta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1158\" data-end=\"1265\">Back then, I didn\u2019t fully understand how valuable her kindness was. I just knew we didn\u2019t go to bed hungry.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1267\" data-end=\"1436\">But I always noticed that Mom wouldn\u2019t eat with us. She\u2019d sit quietly, pretending she wasn\u2019t hungry\u2014but I knew she was. She just wanted to make sure we had enough first.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1438\" data-end=\"1586\">Mom gave everything for us. Eventually, things started to improve. She found a better job, and little by little, we managed to climb out of poverty.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1588\" data-end=\"1694\">She even saved enough money to move us into a better home. In time, both Samira and I went off to college.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1696\" data-end=\"1810\">But Samira didn\u2019t remember the hard years the way I did\u2014she was too young to understand what Mom had gone through.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1812\" data-end=\"1910\">Maybe that\u2019s why she turned out the way she did\u2014let\u2019s just say she was a bit spoiled and carefree.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1912\" data-end=\"2059\">Even after graduating college, she refused to get a job. She kept asking Mom for money and spent it recklessly, as if there were an endless supply.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2061\" data-end=\"2137\">But everything changed one day when Mom called and asked me to come see her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2139\" data-end=\"2188\">\u201cYes, yes, I just want to talk to you,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2190\" data-end=\"2300\">Her words echoed in my head as I drove to her house after work. Something felt off\u2014Mom never called like that.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2302\" data-end=\"2372\">When I arrived, the front door was already open, so I walked right in.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2374\" data-end=\"2394\">\u201cMom?\u201d I called out.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2396\" data-end=\"2442\">\u201cI\u2019m in the kitchen, sweetheart,\u201d she replied.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2444\" data-end=\"2618\">I entered and saw her sitting at the table, a cup of tea in front of her. Her hands were resting on the table, but they looked tired. Her eyes, usually so bright, seemed dim.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2620\" data-end=\"2692\">\u201cWhat\u2019s wrong? What did you want to talk about?\u201d I asked, taking a seat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2694\" data-end=\"2796\">Mom took a deep breath. \u201cI went to the doctor today. Unfortunately, I have bad news,\u201d she said softly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2798\" data-end=\"2851\">My heart started racing. \u201cWhat? What is it?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2853\" data-end=\"2911\">\u201cMy heart,\u201d she whispered. \u201cThey gave me a year, at best.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2913\" data-end=\"3058\">The words hit me like a brick. \u201cIsn\u2019t there anything that can be done? I\u2019ll pay for whatever\u2019s needed, just tell me,\u201d I said, my voice trembling.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3060\" data-end=\"3142\">\u201cOne year with treatment. Without it, I might not even have two months,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3144\" data-end=\"3204\">\u201cNo, no, this can\u2019t be,\u201d I whispered, tears filling my eyes.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3206\" data-end=\"3308\">\u201cBut it\u2019s true,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIt seems all those years of stress and hard work finally caught up to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3310\" data-end=\"3404\">I couldn\u2019t hold back anymore and hugged her. \u201cWe\u2019ll get through this together, Mom. I\u2019m here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3406\" data-end=\"3462\">\u201cI know,\u201d Mom said gently. \u201cJust don\u2019t tell Samira yet.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3464\" data-end=\"3563\">\u201cWhy not? She\u2019ll keep asking you for money, especially now when you need it for treatment,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3565\" data-end=\"3660\">\u201cShe\u2019s living off her new boyfriend\u2019s money now, so things are quiet for a while,\u201d Mom replied.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3662\" data-end=\"3698\">I shook my head. \u201cThat\u2019s not right.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3700\" data-end=\"3749\">\u201cI\u2019ll tell her when the time is right,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3751\" data-end=\"3912\">A month after that conversation, Mom finally told Samira everything. Samira had come over again, asking for money after breaking up with her boyfriend once more.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3914\" data-end=\"4045\">After their talk, she came straight to me. She didn\u2019t even knock\u2014she walked in like she owned the place and dropped onto the couch.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4047\" data-end=\"4097\">\u201cI don\u2019t want you visiting Mom anymore,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4099\" data-end=\"4227\">\u201cAre you crazy? Mom is sick. I\u2019ll visit her. Someone has to take care of her,\u201d I replied. I couldn\u2019t believe what I was hearing.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4229\" data-end=\"4328\">\u201cI know why you\u2019re so worried\u2014you want the inheritance. But it\u2019s not going to happen,\u201d Samira said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4330\" data-end=\"4455\">\u201cSeriously? I don\u2019t care about the money. I just want to help Mom,\u201d I said. \u201cOr do you judge everyone by your own standards?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4457\" data-end=\"4590\">Samira rolled her eyes. \u201cMom always loved me more because she gave me more money. Now you want something after she\u2019s gone,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4592\" data-end=\"4729\">\u201cWhat nonsense\u2026 If that\u2019s what you really think, then there\u2019s nothing left to say. I will visit her. Someone has to help,\u201d I said firmly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4731\" data-end=\"4849\">\u201cDon\u2019t worry about that. I\u2019ve already planned everything. I\u2019m moving in with Mom and taking care of her,\u201d Samira said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4851\" data-end=\"4943\">\u201cYou? Since when are you so selfless? You\u2019ve never cared about anyone but yourself,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4945\" data-end=\"5076\">\u201cThat\u2019s not true. I\u2019ve always cared about Mom, and now she needs me. So don\u2019t even try to come over. I won\u2019t let you in,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5078\" data-end=\"5199\">She got up, grabbed her bag, and walked out without another word. I stood still, staring at the door long after she left.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5201\" data-end=\"5288\">I couldn\u2019t believe how selfish she was. And as it turned out, she wasn\u2019t joking at all.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5290\" data-end=\"5413\">Samira didn\u2019t let me see Mom, always with an excuse: \u201cMom is sleeping,\u201d \u201cMom isn\u2019t feeling well,\u201d \u201cMom went to the doctor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5415\" data-end=\"5499\">So I texted Mom, asking her to tell me when Samira wouldn\u2019t be home so I could come.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5501\" data-end=\"5645\">One afternoon, Mom messaged that Samira had gone to the mall and I could come over. I made a quick stop at the store and went straight to Mom\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5647\" data-end=\"5760\">When I arrived, she was resting on the couch, watching TV. She looked tired, but her eyes lit up when she saw me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5762\" data-end=\"5809\">\u201cHow are you feeling?\u201d I asked as I approached.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5811\" data-end=\"5868\">\u201cNot too bad. I\u2019m managing,\u201d Mom said with a faint smile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5870\" data-end=\"5973\">\u201cI brought you some groceries,\u201d I said, setting the bag down. \u201cYour favorite tea and some fresh fruit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5975\" data-end=\"6123\">\u201cThank you, sweetheart,\u201d Mom said, but her face tensed. \u201cWhy haven\u2019t you visited me? Samira said you didn\u2019t want to because you think I\u2019m a burden.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6125\" data-end=\"6284\">I couldn\u2019t believe what I was hearing. \u201cShe said what?! I\u2019m furious. I haven\u2019t come because Samira wouldn\u2019t let me. The moment I had a chance, I came,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6286\" data-end=\"6314\">\u201cI understand,\u201d Mom replied.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6316\" data-end=\"6357\">\u201cHow is Samira? Is she helping?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6359\" data-end=\"6506\">\u201cYes, yes. She\u2019s with me almost all the time. She cooks, cleans, brings me my medicine,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI think my illness changed her for the better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6508\" data-end=\"6605\">\u201cSure it did\u2026\u201d I muttered. \u201cAnd do you have enough money?\u201d I asked, trying to change the subject.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6607\" data-end=\"6719\">\u201cFor now, yes, but Samira spends a lot. I\u2019m afraid we won\u2019t have enough for the medication,\u201d Mom said worriedly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6721\" data-end=\"6803\">\u201cDon\u2019t worry. I\u2019ll talk to the doctor and take care of everything,\u201d I said firmly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6805\" data-end=\"6852\">\u201cOkay, thank you,\u201d Mom said with a tired smile.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6854\" data-end=\"7010\">I stayed with her for a while, talking about simple things. I didn\u2019t want to leave, but she said she was tired and wanted to go to bed. I helped her gently.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7012\" data-end=\"7110\">\u201cNicole,\u201d Mom said quietly as she lay down. \u201cI\u2019ve lived a long life, and I understand everything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7112\" data-end=\"7194\">I just nodded. Her words didn\u2019t make much sense, but I assumed it was the fatigue.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7196\" data-end=\"7305\">I put away the groceries and quietly left. But I didn\u2019t go home\u2014I couldn\u2019t. I drove straight to the hospital\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7307\" data-end=\"7407\">\u2026I knocked on Dr. Miller\u2019s office door, and after hearing \u201cCome in,\u201d I walked in with a heavy heart.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7409\" data-end=\"7444\">\u2014 Hello, I\u2019m Mrs. Marta\u2019s daughter\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7446\" data-end=\"7568\">\u2014 Ah, you must be Nicole, the doctor interrupted, his voice warm. Your mother talked about you often. Please, have a seat.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7570\" data-end=\"7618\">I sat down nervously, trying to hold back tears.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7620\" data-end=\"7736\">\u2014 I want to talk about my mom\u2019s treatment. From now on, please send all bills to me. Everything, no matter the cost.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7738\" data-end=\"7829\">\u2014 As far as I know, Samira has been handling all the payments\u2026 he said, raising an eyebrow.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7831\" data-end=\"7984\">\u2014 Yes, but she\u2019s only using Mom\u2019s money. And she spends a lot. I don\u2019t want Mom to stress over finances anymore, I said, feeling my hands start to shake.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7986\" data-end=\"8030\">\u2014 Alright, we can do that, he said, nodding.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8032\" data-end=\"8178\">For the first time in a long while, I felt like I could finally be there for Mom the right way. But deep down, I knew this was just the beginning.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8180\" data-end=\"8363\">When the bills started coming in, I was shocked. The amounts were enormous. I wondered how Mom had managed to cover them, especially with Samira burning through her money shamelessly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8365\" data-end=\"8561\">As the months passed, Mom\u2019s condition worsened. She had lost a lot of weight and barely got out of bed. Eventually, she was hospitalized\u2014and only then could Samira no longer keep me away from her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8563\" data-end=\"8743\">I went to the hospital every evening. I sat with Mom, read to her, held her hand, brought her favorite flowers \u2014 pink carnations. I made her smile, even when the pain consumed her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8745\" data-end=\"8936\">Samira, however, hadn\u2019t given up. She came every day, but not for Mom. She looked at me with disdain, trying to keep herself in the spotlight. But it was clear she was desperate, not devoted.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8938\" data-end=\"8987\">One evening, she came up to me, her face serious.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8989\" data-end=\"9014\">\u2014 Can we talk? she asked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9016\" data-end=\"9067\">We stepped into the hallway, and I crossed my arms.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9069\" data-end=\"9138\">\u2014 Mom\u2019s money is running out, she said without looking me in the eye.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9140\" data-end=\"9201\">\u2014 I\u2019m paying for the treatments. How could it be running out?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9203\" data-end=\"9283\">\u2014 Well\u2026 there are other expenses. Bills, food\u2026 and I need to live too, you know?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9285\" data-end=\"9301\">I sighed deeply.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9303\" data-end=\"9387\">\u2014 That\u2019s the problem, Samira. You live off others. But I\u2019m not going to support you.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9389\" data-end=\"9442\">And I walked back into the room without looking back.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9444\" data-end=\"9526\">A few days later, I got a call from the hospital. My breath caught. Mom\u2026 was gone.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9528\" data-end=\"9624\">I rushed to the hospital, heartbroken. When I arrived, Samira was already there \u2014 with a lawyer.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9626\" data-end=\"9727\">\u2014 I took care of Mom. The inheritance is mine, she said coldly, handing me a will through her lawyer.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9729\" data-end=\"9764\">I pushed the paper back toward him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9766\" data-end=\"9826\">\u2014 Mom just died, and you&#8217;re talking about money?! I shouted.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9828\" data-end=\"9882\">\u2014 I just don\u2019t want any issues later, she said flatly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9884\" data-end=\"9958\">\u2014 You\u2019re unbelievable, I said, and walked straight to Dr. Miller\u2019s office.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9960\" data-end=\"9994\">When he saw me, his face softened.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9996\" data-end=\"10082\">\u2014 I\u2019m so sorry\u2026 Your mother loved you more than anything in the world, he said gently.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10084\" data-end=\"10132\">\u2014 Thank you, I said, my eyes filling with tears.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10134\" data-end=\"10312\">\u2014 Before she passed, she left something for you, he said. He pulled an envelope from a drawer and handed it to me. On it was written, in Mom\u2019s handwriting: \u201cTo my true daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10314\" data-end=\"10361\">\u2014 Would you mind if I read it outside? I asked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10363\" data-end=\"10470\">I went into the hallway and sat on a bench. My hands trembled as I opened the envelope. Inside was\u2026 a will.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10472\" data-end=\"10509\">I read every word, my heart pounding.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10511\" data-end=\"10596\">It was newer than the one Samira had presented. Legal. Mom had left everything to me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10598\" data-end=\"10691\">There was also an account I knew nothing about. With a large sum. Mom had planned everything.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10693\" data-end=\"10757\">On the edge of the will was a note. Mom\u2019s handwriting, no doubt.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10759\" data-end=\"10894\">\u201cI told you I understand everything. I know how to tell true love from selfishness. That\u2019s why I\u2019m leaving everything to you, Nicole.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10896\" data-end=\"10977\">I hope you always carry kindness and compassion in your heart. I love you. \u2014 Mom\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10979\" data-end=\"11089\">Tears streamed down my cheeks. I covered my face and cried in silence. Mom had protected me\u2026 even after death.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11091\" data-end=\"11192\">And in that moment, I knew: it didn\u2019t matter what Samira would say. It didn\u2019t matter who wanted what.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11194\" data-end=\"11265\">I had received the most precious gift \u2014 my mother\u2019s unconditional love.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11267\" data-end=\"11365\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">And I would carry her memory forward. With love. With strength. With dignity. Just like she lived.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Mom got sick, my sister suddenly stepped into the role of the devoted daughter. She moved in with her and kept me at a distance, insisting she had everything under control. But I knew my sister\u2014her intentions had never been entirely sincere. 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