{"id":7101,"date":"2026-07-30T05:55:22","date_gmt":"2026-07-30T05:55:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tappyli.com\/?p=7101"},"modified":"2026-07-30T05:55:22","modified_gmt":"2026-07-30T05:55:22","slug":"my-daughter-kept-begging-me-not-to-get-involved-despite-the-constant-bullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tappyli.com\/?p=7101","title":{"rendered":"MY DAUGHTER KEPT BEGGING ME NOT TO GET INVOLVED DESPITE THE CONSTANT BULLYING"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"PDq2pG_selectionAnchorContainer\" data-start=\"1888\" data-end=\"1908\">I unfolded the note.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1910\" data-end=\"1936\">The handwriting was shaky.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1938\" data-end=\"1946\">It read:<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"1948\" data-end=\"2053\">\n<p data-start=\"1950\" data-end=\"2053\"><strong data-start=\"1950\" data-end=\"2053\">&#8220;Thank you for your hair. You don&#8217;t know me, but because of you, I&#8217;ll get to feel beautiful again.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"2055\" data-end=\"2075\">Below the message&#8230;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2077\" data-end=\"2088\">Was a name.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2090\" data-end=\"2099\"><strong data-start=\"2090\" data-end=\"2099\">Emma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2101\" data-end=\"2115\">And the words:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2117\" data-end=\"2146\"><strong data-start=\"2117\" data-end=\"2146\">Children&#8217;s Oncology Ward.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2148\" data-end=\"2168\">I looked up at Maya.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2170\" data-end=\"2185\">&#8220;What is this?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2187\" data-end=\"2209\">She wiped away a tear.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2211\" data-end=\"2232\">&#8220;It wasn&#8217;t bullying.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2234\" data-end=\"2250\">I stared at her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2252\" data-end=\"2261\">&#8220;Then&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2263\" data-end=\"2279\">&#8220;What happened?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2281\" data-end=\"2304\">She took a deep breath.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2306\" data-end=\"2389\">&#8220;Last month, our school counselor told us about a girl at the children&#8217;s hospital.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2391\" data-end=\"2404\">&#8220;She&#8217;s nine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2406\" data-end=\"2453\">&#8220;She lost all of her hair during chemotherapy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2455\" data-end=\"2528\">&#8220;She stopped leaving her room because she didn&#8217;t want anyone to see her.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2530\" data-end=\"2569\">My husband slowly lowered the car keys.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2571\" data-end=\"2586\">Maya continued.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2588\" data-end=\"2624\">&#8220;I asked if I could donate my hair.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2626\" data-end=\"2638\">I whispered,<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2640\" data-end=\"2648\">&#8220;But&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2650\" data-end=\"2678\">&#8220;&#8230;why didn&#8217;t you tell us?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2680\" data-end=\"2696\">She looked down.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2698\" data-end=\"2748\">&#8220;Because I knew you&#8217;d want to take me to a salon.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2750\" data-end=\"2782\">&#8220;The hospital called yesterday.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2784\" data-end=\"2823\">&#8220;They said Emma&#8217;s treatment got worse.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2825\" data-end=\"2860\">&#8220;They needed the hair immediately.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2862\" data-end=\"2882\">&#8220;So after school&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2884\" data-end=\"2918\">&#8220;My art teacher helped me cut it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2920\" data-end=\"2957\">I looked again at the uneven haircut.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2959\" data-end=\"2982\">&#8220;The teacher did this?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2984\" data-end=\"3003\">Maya smiled weakly.<\/p>\n<p 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